[DynInst_API:] commit: fixes for symlite and for tarball target

[Bill Williams <wrwilliams@xxxxxxxx>]

The tarball target was not compressing (bad) and was installing to an 
inappropriate location (read: any, really). Fixed both of those.
SymLite was not being treated as a proper component, and would break the 
build when enabled; LLNL still cares at least for the moment. Fixed as 
follows:
1) SymLite builds by default
2) Enabling SymLite links ParseAPI, Stackwalker, and ProcControl against 
it rather than Symtab, and disables the Dyninst and DynC library builds 
as they require a Symtab-based ParseAPI.
There will be a 9.0.4 with this and any other fixes that turn up in the 
next ~week, but I'm not bumping the patch version yet.
--bw